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User Topic: Out of home and @Hotel. The hardest was to tell my 9yo daughter
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks IrishLass518.

I'm sure I'm biased. And it's common to lionize one's own mother after she's passed away, particularly as it happened at an early age (and in my culture the concept of one's own mother is one of tremendous reverence as it is), before teenage angst and rebellion could take a toll on that relationship.

Still, I really think that she was wise.


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 580 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree, you carry her wisdom within you and you have the opportunity to pass that trait on to your children. I told IrishLad that it was wrong for Daddy to have a girlfriend and have a baby with her while daddy is married to mommy. He was 7 or 8 at the time. He got it. It was so hard for us to start again without xWH, it was not what we wanted,it was the choice that was best for us. We did IC and family group therapy and we are healing. You and your children will get to heal, that is the gift you can give them by ending the drama.

[This message edited by IrishLass518 at 11:48 PM, December 24th (Tuesday)]


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm just catching up on SI and so sorry to read your post. Praying for you and your kids and hope you get your own place soon!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you myowndystopia,

There may be great news on that very soon. I called in a favor with a real estate agent that has gotten a lot of both commission and referrals from me over the years. I explained as little as I could of the situation. She was on vacation but pulled through and yanked not one, but two junior agents out of their vacations to show me places and rush paperwork. Slim pickings but we found one.

So I very well may spend New Years assembling Ikea furniture in my new place. :)

And I need to make sure I get a Starbucks gift card or something for them. They really came through in a true time of need.

[This message edited by GotPlayed at 1:54 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)]


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 580 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GP

Could've written that myself, minus the daughter part. Peace and strength to you today and always. It gets better. I actually like my extended stay place. Been there since November 16th. It's home now


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 688 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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