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User Topic: New Year's idea
mof2
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We can all definitely say it has been a hard year, but we can also make the choice to allow 2014 to be a better year. My ex walked out on me for another woman on February 12, 2013 and 4 months later my mom called me to tell me she had breast cancer. When my mom was finding out the stage of her cancer we made a bet. She bet it was stage 2 and I said stage 1....I WON!!! She had her last chemo infusion 2 weeks ago and bouncing back with an 85% chance that it will not come back. With that being said, my mom called me one night and said New Year's at midnight she want she and I to be on the phone together and FLUSH THE TOILET...flush 2013 DOWN!!! A friend of mine proposed that she and I both write down on toilet paper what we are flushing away. So we are doing it! I wanted to share this with all of you in hopes that you would do the same thing. Hugs to you all and that 2014 is a great year for all of you!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 312 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
Gajit
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a GREAT idea!

I'm gonna flush!


Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

Posts: 224 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
ruby44
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me too. I want to flush away all the sadness, blame, his version of our family history.

I may need to flush twice to clear the bowl!
Great idea.


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home. We are slowly working toward that but are still

Posts: 263 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
clralb
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea!

Glad that your mom is doing so well too!


BS Divorced.

They were right about you.


Posts: 676 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: southeast
GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this idea, and thanks for sharing it with us.

I am so happy about your mom, too!!


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 397 | Registered: Nov 2011
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 2:56 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great idea, if my 16yo dd hadn't already said she wants to burn some stuff (sheets from my bed, papers and some other things) that might be a player. We are going to do a ceremony and throw things in the fire!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Skan
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Midnight local or midnight a specific time zone? I'm in!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4551 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
NotFixable
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in!


Me-BS
Him-WH
Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
Status: Separated and planning D
___________________________________

Nowhere left to go but up!


Posts: 101 | Registered: Dec 2013
hangingonin
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm also joining in on this one. As I'm in the UK, I will definitely be doing this at a different time than you all.
Happy flushing!!

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great idea! Very happy for your mom and you!


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1287 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
SusanR
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Happy  Posted: 10:07 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i was looking for something to do on New Year's Eve!

Posts: 1928 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Midwest
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