Best of luck to you too justjim.
I've CAUGHT my WW in several lies, and I've got GPS of her at his house/rental/house boat. Plus, an Inn confirmed he was registered there the same day I have GPS showing her there. But, she "didn't have an affair". Whatever.
The unremorsefulness makes all this a little more unbearable. It would be easier if she had died. That way, she wouldn't have made the choice to leave.
I made the mistake of answering the phone today when she called (first time in two weeks). All of this is still "my fault" because I told some people about her "talking to another man too much, and she refuses to stop". I did it at her birthday party after finding out (purely by chance) that she had been to dinner with the man after she swore to me she wasn't talking to him anymore. I'll admit that I was angry when I told people. But, no A, and I wouldn't have had anything to talk about.
Anyway, today she informed me that "I knew the consequences if I told anyone and that I did it anyway" and that "no one could say they love someone and treat them so badly". Nevermind that she's running around telling people that I kicked her out of the house because she "talked to another guy a little too much, and BH is jealous". The hypocrisy of some people knows no bounds.
She also informed me that she accepted a new job a few days ago (never asked me about it). The kicker is: he's on the board of directors for the organization. In all fairness, his term expires at the end of this year and she starts on January 2. It's not like he'll just disappear though. But, it still feels like another slap in the face.
I've had about all I can take. I'm too young to live like this.