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User Topic: x's girlfriend is crazeeee!
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, the wee one comes home from dad's and is telling me all about life on the dark side. Apparently, my dd isn't allowed to talk about me at her dad's! But the crazy part is, that the psycho girlfriend has cut her hair like mine and dyed it the same color. Mine is naturally reddish brown, and hers is nearly black!

I suppose I should take it as a compliment that this crazy heiffer is now copying me?? Shudder...


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get the book Divorce Poison and read the sections that discuss visiting children being forbidden to discuss their other parent. Read about the damage this does to the child and how it can easily cause alienation. You need to do some hard thinking. The hair is a non-issue. What's being done to your child's psyche is what's worth pondering.

I'm sorry this is happening at all. It disgusts me when a parent allows or causes their child to endure mind games.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I'm trying to (gently) find out whether it's because the girlfriend doesn't like it, the x doesn't like it, or the 8 year old is exaggerating. I hate to pump the kids for info because I don't want them to feel they're being interrogated. Heaven knows they've been through enough!

This is the ow girlfriend who has a record for child endangerment, 4 kids with 4 different men, and recently ran her 10 year old over with her car. Not a good situation!


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does your baby have a counselor or trusted adult friend, teacher or someone like that? Someone other than YOU who might be approachable by your DD? I have learned that nothing a protective parent says is considered valid. Only what is repeated to a third party adult is considered valid. If you could ask an IC to try and frame a conversation with your baby on this subject, it might be a good opportunity to document the mental abuse (which is what this is).


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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