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User Topic: Really??? Today of all f****** days?
Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was a year ago today that he left, and I have been struggling all weekend with ups and downs and he fucking calls me today! I haven't talked to him on the phone in over a month. It has been texts only, and he calls me today to ask me what size DD is cause he is getting her a jacket. I mean really?! You had to call me for that....couldn't just send a text? I'm sure he doesn't even know what today is, but god I didn't need to hear the sound of his voice today.

And what the hell?! This week I mailed him a couple bills, along with an old journal I had just found of his...where he talked about how much the kids and I meant to him, and how much he loved us and missed us ( he was working away from home at the time)...that was fun to read ...and I know I probably shouldn't have mailed that with the bills, but I did. Anyways, I knew he would call me yelling about the bills, but nothing. And then he calls today to ask a question that would take me one word to answer in a text.

Fuck me today is hard enough as it is....I really didn't need any contact from him on top off it


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

Posts: 45 | Registered: Jun 2013
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Darcy3)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5864 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
NotFixable
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Darcy3! I know that had to be so hard for you! I know it opened up all the old wounds. I'm still new to this crap shoot, but I've been on here reading all day because I'm also having a horribly hard day. Posting and venting on here is really helping me. Knowing that there are others in the same boat is reassuring. We are all in this together and you will make it through today. Praying for strength and peace for you!

((Darcy3))


Me-BS
Him-WH
Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
Status: Separated and planning D
___________________________________

Nowhere left to go but up!


Posts: 108 | Registered: Dec 2013
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Darcy3)))


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

what a bastard... whether he knew what today was or not, he is an ass.
So sorry....


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3618 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Notfixable)))

Lol PurpleRose...thanks for that. That's exactly what my sister would say and I wasn't able to get ahold of her today, so thank you.


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

Posts: 45 | Registered: Jun 2013
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