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User Topic: If You Could Pick Your Karma?
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't wish anything bad to happen to WH.
I love him & we are working on healing our marriage & keeping our family together.

His Karma will be dealing with his mother (an unremorseful OW & WW herself, & a narcissist--- a selfish, manipulative, controlling bitch tyrant, who thinks she has never done anything wrong in her whole life.) For our entire marriage, she was critical of me, negated my needs & reality, & purposely damaged the way that WH saw me.
Everyone in WH's family thought that I would be the one to take care of MIL,
until she threw me under the bus on Dday,
told WH that he didn't do anything wrong,
blamed his A on me,
& enabled him to continue it.
Since Dday, I really haven't had anything to do with her, because she is that toxic.
So that will be his Karma, having to take care of her by himself, without my help.
While he is doing that, I will take care of him & his children & his home.


On the other hand, I hope OW receives the worst things possible in life.
She tried to destroy a family for her own selfish desires.
I do not wish death on her, I wish her a lifetime of agony & torture.
I hope she gets leprosy between her legs.
I hope she is shamed on the front page of the newspaper/ several full page articles describing what a low life slut she is, that she is imprisoned for the rest of her life & that she has a horrific long term illness involving removal of specific female sex related body parts, & then dies a long, drawn out , painful death alone.


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1337 | Registered: Dec 2012
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't need to pick the karma, karma happens on its own, in its own time. People who spread pain and misery will get it back in spades. Reap what you sow. It's just the way of the world. As the saying goes, let God sort 'em out.

My wife's karma is having to face a husband, 365 days a year, who knows what she did and what she's capable of. I wouldn't want that for myself, would you? But we're reconciling and trying to heal our marriage, so I don't want anymore karma for her than that.

As for OM, he's probably been living his karma for years. I don't know him but understand that he's a middle-aged divorcee who lives alone in a rented duplex. He works an hourly wage job for the railroad by day and trolls dance clubs for married women at night. He can't deal with his own pain, whatever its source, so he tries to inflict pain on others to fill the black hole that is his soul. His own wife divorced him because he "worked too much" - at least that's what he told my wife. My guess is that she divorced him because he cheated on her and was otherwise a plague on her life. Even factoring in all the pain he helped cause me and our kids, I wouldn't trade places with him for nothing. He's such a parasitic, dysfunctional individual, I imagine "karma" for him began in childhood. I'll let him live his life the way he's been living it. That's revenge enough.

[This message edited by Sal1995 at 9:15 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)]


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciling


Posts: 1327 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm living a good life, and that's the best revenge/karma I could wish for. My kids love and respect me. I have a wonderful SO who adores and cherishes me, and I adore and cherish him. I went from being a sahm whose husband walked out on her to a working mom with a good job. I've rebuilt my life step by step, and when I look in the mirror I see a woman I can be proud of.

Ex, otoh, well I don't know much about what his life is really like now that he's married to OW, but I saw a picture of him from this past weekend and he looks like hell. Now, it could just be that it's a bad picture, but the kids looked pretty good in it, so I'm guessing it's the ex looking like hell.

All along I've said I hope ex and OW get all the happiness they deserve, and if the picture is any indication, that's what they got. karma at its finest. bwahahahaha


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12124 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
cupcakegirl
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My SAH is working on his issues and trying to be authentic and a better H, so no bus picked-out for him ATM.

However, every now and then, two of his hags creep out from Slutsville and we have to either give crickets or write NC letter (Just did this at Thanksgiving). Since they just don't get it, I would just order a some "amusement Karma".

For example, I would like all of them to suddenly grow heavy duty facial hair that would grow back within hours of shaving. Mountain man style.

I would love for them both to crop-up with a lifetime case of severe Sharts- uncontrollable and unpredictable every day- especially when in romantic situations. I would not even be sad if they grew giant colorful baboon butts also.

It might bring a bit of a look of satisfaction to my face if their lady parts got so overused and stretched out that they had to tote it or drag it with them on a little scooter or skate board. Just sayin'.

IDK...for me the best karma is a good laugh at how totally pathetic they really are.


Me:BS, 43
Him: SAH, 48
Married 21 years
DDay 1: 2007
First day of transparency in M: 10/17/11
Polygraph 1/13/12 passed!
Polygraph 7/8/12 passed!
Polygraph 2/4/13 passed!
Next Poly is 2/14 passed!

Posts: 238 | Registered: Oct 2011
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Karma for my WH?...He experienced that on Dday when his entire life went to shit and then he spent 2+ years dealing with my rage...that's karma!

Karma for MOW? I'm not "most BS" I do wish for something terrible to happen to that POS but shall refrain from stating my desire.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2090 | Registered: Nov 2011
honesttoafault
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would wish that OW would cheat on him and that he found out the OC's were not his.

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