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User Topic: friendship, cake-eating, holidays
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nekorb you are definitely NOT being unreasonable. Sure you know that though...

There have to be consequences. I am not imposing them out of cruelty, I am simple reacting to WHs selfish cruelty. I refuse to put on an act.

All WH cares about anyway is appearances. He races cars to win..not for fun. He got on a stage to play bass guitar to look cool...he didn't really know how to play at all. He wears suits inappropriate places to impress people. He's been over dressing ever since dday actually. Especially around my family.

I remember the day after dday I was shell shocked. WH called his parents and told them. We had already promised to go to dinner to celebrate his dad's birthday and WH said to his mom " spelljean and I are good...we are going to divorce but its all fine. We don't hate eachother, so yes...dinner is on"

I went out that night and had a knife in my back through the whole dinner. Playing nice. Smiling when I wanted to cry. Applebees. Had horrible indigestion when I got home.

Appearances. All for him.

Screw him...never again.


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

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