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User Topic: Just painful and frustrating
hopeandchange
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why, two and one half years post DDay and on the verge of D being finalized, do I wake up dreaming about WW's AP? "Holiday cards arrive and one is from her AP" and then his name and image refuse to leave my head space. Ugh! And no, he did not send a holiday card - that was just the dream.

Looking forward to a peaceful existnce, someday.

H&C


BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness

Posts: 405 | Registered: Sep 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you can shake off the dream AND the invasive thoughts, honey. ((((H&C))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25667 | Registered: Aug 2011
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HandC))) may you find a bit of peace today and forget the dream.

[This message edited by IrishLass518 at 12:58 PM, December 8th (Sunday)]


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm struggling today too.

No advice to give, just hugs and mojo that all of us get through this effing holiday in one piece!

Did you do the SI Christmas card exchange? If so then you should be receiving enough glitter to blot out that bad dream.

((H&C))
Hugs to you


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 911 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am 3 1/2 years past D-day, and once in a while I have a dream about XWH, and it ruins my day.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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