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User Topic: Oh lord, it just got worse...
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dear stepmother's cancer is back and in her liver, she's having surgery dec. 9.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 863 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((betrayedfriend)))

Sending my thoughts and prayers.


Posts: 11531 | Registered: Mar 2008
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive thoughts and healing mojo to your stepmother.

(((Hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((betrayedfriend, stepmother, & family)))) I'm so sorry, honey. Sending you all strength.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending Prayers!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24413 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((hugs and prayers)))))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5741 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((betrayedfriend, stepmother, and family)))

Sending prayers and strength.


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for your (((SM,family)))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9688 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So much! I'm sorry, Friend. ((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. My step mom is the only reason I have a relationship with my dad. She's sweet and kind and gentle. She and my dad married in 2004, and I know that if we lose her, we'll lose my dad too. She has three kids of her own and 6 grand kids from her first marriage that would be lost without her.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 863 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
Lostandpregnant
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:(
((hugs))


He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private Investigator..it even happens to us.

Posts: 354 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Canada
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and strength to you and your stepmom.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(betrayedfriend))) I'm so sorry :(

My brother battled liver cancer and outlived his prognosis nine times over. Depending on how aggressive your SM wants to be, there is hope for good quality of life for longer than many once thought possible.

PM if you ever need an ear or shoulder.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8478 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, December 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This will be her second surgery. The first one removed most of her stomach, pancreas, part of her liver and a good part of her intestine. She is in good spirits, but I'm so worried about her. I just saw her a few weeks ago when she and my dad drove up and surprised us by coming to my kids' birthday party. They live several states away from here. The reason I say that we'll lose my dad too, is because he's always been the type of person that if someone is out of sight, they are out of mind. It's not malicious, and we learned to cope with it many years ago ( my parents divorced when I was 6). So between that and the hatred my mom aimed at him, I never really had a chance to know him as a kid. My stepmom was appalled at the lack of relationship and immediately set about building bridges and encouraging Dad to be more active. It's not ideal but we are friendly and on good terms now. And Cathy has been the key reason that relationship exists. I love her and I hate that she's suffering and struggling even though she puts on a good front.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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