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User Topic: Holidays are here
nowiknow23
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Wink  Posted: 11:49 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

***Posting as a member***

Just wanted to post a gentle nudge - when the holidays arrive, the newer members in JFO, General, Recon, Wayward, ICR, and D/S could really use a little extra support from those of us who are farther down the road.

If you are able, please consider shining a little light on their paths? Even a simple hug here and there can make a huge difference.

Happy Holidays, NB peeps!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great reminder NIK.

Happy Holidays to you as well


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13810 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
tryinghard2013
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are right ive been very lax only reading but I want to help the new members I know how helpful this place has been for me and I will be more active in helping.

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jan 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No judgement intended in my post AT ALL. I hope it came across right.

It's ok if you aren't in a place where you can help out right now. Holidays are hard for everyone, even us rock star NBers.

It's all good.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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miadianna
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the reminder.


Me: BS 53
Son: 27 years old
Daughter: 25 years old
D-day(s) 9/23/94 - 1/31/05
Divorced 4/10/08

Posts: 7482 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Illinois
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to add that sometimes there is healing in helping others.

But I know there were plenty of times when I just couldn't. And that SI was here for me in those times.

Happy holidays to you NIK.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5861 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Roger and WILCO!
Over.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to add that sometimes there is healing in helping others.

But I know there were plenty of times when I just couldn't. And that SI was here for me in those times.

WORD. So much truth, cg. My healing has been tremendously aided by reaching out to others.

And there were times (and occasionally still are) that I just couldn't. SI is there for us all. And we are all SI.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

will do
&
wow!... this makes me realize how far I've come along.
A couple of years ago I was in JFO, then D/S and hung on every word posted by those further along to give me comfort that things would get better.
and now....
well, it's like the circle is completing itself (and that in itself is further healing for me)

Posts: 500 | Registered: Jun 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks for the "nudge", NIK. Will do so!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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