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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 6:09 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I asked spouse to take ds6 to dentist (he has appt at 9am today. Wh doesnt start work til 1pm). He said yes. Then he changed his mind saying his trucks clutch wasnt working well. I offered to trade vehicles. Nope. Not happening. I said if ds6 didnt go I would end up paying for missed appt. He called me a liar. He said he never paid for missed appts. (And the bill gets sent to collection...which is why he hasnt ever paid ).

I cant take ds6 because I work straight...no lunch. I got to sleep in today but have to be at work before window opens at 8. I am the only one able to work the window.

He angrily said last night he would take ds6 but said again I was a liar.

Its 706am. He is asleep. If I ask him again today to take ds6 there will be a screaming spouse throwing a fit.

I will be honest with the dentist. The dr already knows he doesnt participate bc I was asked why I couldnt get the kids in on a regular basis (I can on days like columbus day, veterans day...days my office is closed).

Selfish again.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And you continue to tolerate this....why?

Nothing changes until something changes.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cant deal with fighting with him. He has been a nasty bastard the last couple of days. Yesterday he went to the bathroom just as I got up. As he was going back to bed I said goodbye bc I wouldnt see him til whenever. He said to me that I need to not go to work as I was dressed; I needed to think of my customers. I was still in my jammies...hadnt showered yet.

He yells at me for making noise in the morning. I am quiet. He sleeps light

Last night he makes a bar stop. Her bar I am sure because he was a bastard when I confronted him sneaking out the door a hour after he got home. He was going to look for his phone. The one right by his hand.

I told the office he didnt want to take ds and made sure they had our correct address (they had the old one) when they send a bill for a missed appt.

Im keeping notes.

The less I have to deal with him, the better (bc he is being a jerk)


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I need to change my situation. Just need to get past a self imposed hurdle


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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