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User Topic: Never thought I'd be able to post here
rsm46
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been so long since I've posted here. I never thought I'd get to this place!

I was asked to move out last September. We officially divorced in January this year. I never thought I'd be happy again or survive on my own, yet here I am...

It's the holiday season, so I get a little sentimental this time of year. I've been able to reflect upon what's happened, what I have done and I've continued to heal. I know that I've made my poor choices but I have stopped letting those choices be who I am, and have instead, learned from them so that I can be the better person I know I am.

And dare I say it? I'm happy! and I don't feel guilty about it. My days of guilt and self hate are over. I feel more like my old self everyday. I don't feel as though I need someone to make me happy. I can make myself happy, whether it's with or without someone. While the D wasn't easy, I got through it and I look forward to every day and look at it as an opportunity to do something better.

I'm glad I can post here, because a new beginning is exactly what I needed and I'm taking advantage of it every day.

With that being said, I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday that's filled with lots of love and laughter!


Happy days are here again:)

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome. New beginnings is a great place to be.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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rsm46
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! SI has helped me through so much in the past. It feels great to be able to post something positive!


Happy days are here again:)

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Ann124
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Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rsm

I wish you the best in your New Beginnings ...

And the best Holiday Season ever!


Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
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