I made my comment, that being bi doesn't mean they get to cheat,that it's not a free pass,etc, without ANY reference to your comments. I was commenting on MY experience with this..having a husband who cheated on ME with a man. I am in R with this man..who CHOOSES not to cheat on me..because fidelity is a choice.
Im not sure who you think is attacking you, but I can assure you I am not, and I was not. If I believed being bi meant they would/could cheat then I would not have worked my ass off over the last 3 years to R with my husband.
As I said..OP is straight..he is attracted to the opposite sex. But he chooses not to act on that. A bisexual spouse may be attracted to the same sex, but they can choose to not act on that.
Im sorry you feel attacked.
M: June 2001
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.