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User Topic: Inspirational Reading To Help Heal?
MsRukia
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure where to post this. Have any of you read any books that have helped you a long the reconciliation path? Something that helped you heal? Any recommendations would be awesome. I'll also check out the book list again.


BS (33)
WS MisterP (36)
Together 13 1/2 Years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly making progress towards Reconciliation.

Posts: 164 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
forgivingnow
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Seven Levels of Intimacy by Matthew Kelly. We both read it. Highly recommend. Talks about making choices that make you a better person, making choices that are good for the relationship. You don't hope for a better relationship, you decide, you design it, you put the relationship first.
Take care


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage" by Gary Neuman was one that helped us a lot.

Granted, I was a little put off by the title at first pass. I don't think that anything is 100% disaster proof, but his advice and message helped us gain better perspective.

If you're looking for personal healing, I highly recommend anything by Pema Chodron. "When Things Fall Apart" is an excellent start.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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