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User Topic: Gratefulness
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am rushing around with little sleep and just feeling bummed I have to start my life over.

Things are looking hopeful but I am just tired with no end in sight. As I am stopped at a light with sleet coming down I look at the many people waiting in the cold for the bus - some with very small kids- most likely to get a gallon of milk or something necessary to go out in this weather with no option.
Now THAT is a hard life!

I was devastated and upset at the ending of my marriage but I am grateful I was granted a best friend for the time he was with me. There was never a promise that my marriage would work out or even that it SHOULD.

The light turned green and to be honest I felt lighter knowing that everything exists in the light you choose to see it in and I am truly fortunate.

[This message edited by fireproof at 11:15 PM, November 26th (Tuesday)]


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Take2
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. So many good things in my life, for sure.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting this!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was devastated and upset at the ending of my marriage but I am grateful I was granted a best friend for the time he was with me. There was never a promise that my marriage would work out or even that it SHOULD.
WOW! I'm going to remember this sentiment as the thing I am trying to obtain on my journey through this. Thank you fireproof!!


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