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User Topic: I actually think I can forgive her....
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto all the way.
She was my friend, she has had many A's before this, during this and since Dday. She is broken and I pray for her healing. Especially for the sake of her children.

BS 53
WH 44
M 14 years at time of DD
2 young daughters
DD 12-8-12
A-3 YEARS and her husband was an accomplice.
In R, IC, & MC Since 1 week after DD. On the mend with the help of God, Friends and Family.

Posts: 89 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Central FL
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


A-3 YEARS and her husband was an accomplice

really? ugh! thats difficult

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom
Anas Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't see myself ever forgiving her. I hate her. She was my friend...or so I thought.

Now the obs in my situation was wh's best friend. Ow left him after dday. About 6 months after dday obs decided to give wh another chance at their friendship and now they talk and hang out quite frequently. I'm glad that we still get to see obs because before all this the three of us were very close (we lived together before ow came into the picture) but I can not understand how he was able to just let it go. I don't know how he can look my husband in the face knowing what he did. Sometimes it feels like I'm the only one who is stuck still hurting over what happened.

D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
Together-10 years Married-5 years
Son-13 months (died July 2, 2014)
Baby #3 due Feb. 2015
4 month EA and 4 month EA/PA in 2012 with my "friend"

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