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User Topic: My Cat Molly
tryinghard2013
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello All: I've been a member but don't post much, we have been doing wonderful in reconciliation. My heart is breaking though, my little black cat got sick with something called pyometra, she had surgery a few days ago, though the vet said she was doing great, she didn't look great, she was always very small five pounds, I kept constant watch on her the past two days, this morning at 4:50 AM she died in my arms and my heart is breaking, thanks for listening, I just had to let it out.

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss.

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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry! I'm glad you were able to be with her, I'm sure Molly knew she was loved and cherished.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tryinghard2013))) (((Molly)))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Those little critters certainly do become part of the family.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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TheRealDeal
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((tryinghard2013)))))

I am so, so sorry to hear about your beloved Molly. I'm sure she knew she could pass in peace because she was being held in loving arms.

please take care of yourself


Me: 45, him: 54
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

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Thriving
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((tryinghard2013)))))

I'm so sorry. Whether 2-legged or 4-legged, it's hard to lose a family member. I'm sure being home made Molly feel safe and eased her transition. She knew you love her.

Be gentle with yourself while you grieve her passing.


"Trust is earned, respect is given, and loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any of one of those is to lose all three." - Anon.

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tryinghard2013)))
(((Molly)))

Honey, I'm so sorry!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tryinghard2013)))

I am so sorry for your loss.


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


...RIP MOLLY...

..i'm very sorry to hear this very sad news.

..we have 3 cats so i know from where you speak, the huge sense of loss and sorrow.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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tryinghard2013
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for your kindness everyone. I haven't slept yet and cant stop crying molly was such a little toughie she came into the world fighting she was such a sick kitten. Our other pets two cats and a dog are very quiet and confused. Thank u all it warmed my heart where I have my little molly forever.

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SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How sad. I know you miss her so much. I'm so sorry. We had a kitty friend named Molly too. Hugs.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((trying))))

So sorry for your loss. I had a Molly that was taken from me far too soon as well (she was a Dane).

Sending you peace and strength right now.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. We are a house of pets too and we love each one as a family member, so we feel your pain. ((hugs))


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

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