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User Topic: What's your personality?
Spelljean
♀ Member
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Introverted, artistic, loyal, kind hearted, silly goof of a girl. (woman!)


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
ShockedErica11
♀ Member
Member # 37550
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aloof, analytical, artistic, spacey, gullible, quick, intellectual, searching, contradicting


Him (31): Taurus517 (17 mon EA/PA); others
Me (27): 3mo EA/PA (kissed once)
One too many D-days
(Full story: see profile)

Posts: 230 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Atlanta, GA
LMomof2
♀ Member
Member # 41064
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loyal, hard working, caring, sometimes quiet, family oriented


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Emotionalhell
♀ Member
Member # 39902
Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Giving, loving, analytical ,love to laugh & have fun,
Loyal , take promises & commitment seriously .

Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2013
sailorgirl
♀ Member
Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Logical and compassionate.
Adventurous but not an adrenaline junkie.
Active but love to read.
Optimistic, whimsical, insightful, deep.


Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
5454real
♂ Member
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

above and beyond all else, faithful. I honor my commitments.

gregarious, humorous, fun loving.

and I can cook a meal for 20 and do the dishes!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Dreamboat
♀ Member
Member # 10506
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stubborn


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17605 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
flup
♂ Member
Member # 21259
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trusting. I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. Which is what is making R so difficult. I don't deal with sarcasm very well, because I take what other people say for granted. Sometimes I feel abused and taken advantage of because of these properties, but I don't stray off the " high road".

Semper Fidelis.


Me: BS 55
Her: fWW 50

D-Day #1: 12 Aug. 2008. WW's 2nd affair w/college teacher.
D-Day #2: 18 June 2009. Affair #1 with neighbor was fall of 2002 - while I was coping with the fallout from 9/11.
Still trying to R.
22 years married


Posts: 427 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Ohio
RidingHealingRd
♀ Member
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honest
Loyal
Generous
Helpful
Reliable
Creative
Perfectionist
Determined
Self assured
Demanding
Direct and to the point



ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2092 | Registered: Nov 2011
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ace Ventura.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2010
Vulcanized
♀ Member
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

smart, introverted, logical, smart-ass smart mouth, hi-fucking-larious (IRL), loyal, honest, artsy, internally a gay man (I've been told by many gay men)


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
-----------------------------------------------------------
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 731 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
blakesteele
♂ Member
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loyal, strong work ethic, stubborn, passionate, prideful.

Extrovert, easily distracted, like to be around people, enjoy attention, think out loud.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 1:30 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3411 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j ... I'm curious: is your answer post-DDay different from what it was pre-DDay? How so? Part of my process has been figuring out who I am (or want to be); I spent too much time trying to be who I thought other people expected me to be (I failed, big time!). I am not even sure how to answer this question today.


Me: WW
DDay: 10 Aug 2012

Posts: 121 | Registered: Sep 2013
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:08 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loyal, quiet around strangers but bubbly with those.I love, when I make a promise I keep.it...no matter what, kind, I like to.be alone at least an hour a day, I'm up for any one that needs me, I.don't like to hurt peoples feelings, I get extremely uncomfortable when people get.confronted and even more when.I need to confront, I.don't like to be embarrassed and I hate to see others suffer embarrassment, I don't like my family to.know when I'm.upset. I smile when I'm nervous., I prefer the company of animals over people sometimes and all of the time with people who irritate me, I'm impatient

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 3:10 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4740 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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