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User Topic: Weekend!!!!
tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And even though I got a snow day off from school earlier this week, I really, really needed the weekend to get here!!!

Teslet and I are doing absolutely NOTHING! In fact, I may possibly decree that it is a jammies weekend.

What's everyone else got planned?

[This message edited by tesla at 4:25 PM, November 15th (Friday)]


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
MakingLemonade
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hanging with my favorite teen this weekend and watching our favorite college football team, perhaps in our jammies!

As a side note from posting last weekend's plans to head to the Gulf for beach therapy trip for me and the kiddos, X was last one at his family's condo with the mistress/girlfriend (knowing I'd be the next one there). They didn't clean the place! Had to start off the long getaway weekend by washing the linens and cleaning the bathroom. She even left lipstick stains on the towel for me to find. Glad I was in a "good place" and laughed off there nastiness and inconsideration. We had a wonderful weekend, btw.


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took today off of work as I've barely taken any vacation days this year, and we have use-it-or-lose-it. Trying not to lose any!

Started with an 11 mile run with my friend this morning. Then, I ran errands and did some major shopping. I have this fabulous second-hand store about 30 minutes away from me (I go every other month or so) where I buy the majority of my work and dating clothes. Made some huge additions to my fall/winter wardrobe. Then, off to REI where I returned a pair of shoes and bought another. Orchard where I got some fabulous apples. Winery where I bought a case (I'm bringing for Thanksgiving.) Spending the rest of the evening finishing my book, hanging out with the parrots, and not going out to see my friend's band, because I'm just not feeling it tonight.

Tomorrow will be a run in the morning, then my art museum occasionally has tours in French, so I'm going to that (trying to keep up my skills.) Then, going to my hometown to watch a movie in French with my parents (they indulge my hobbies!) I'll spend the night with them, so there will be lots of beer drinking and card playing.

Sunday I'm going to my mead making class (tesla, you must start brewing again!) then possibly a book reading if I can make it in time. Hopefully some running, and some cleaning. Guy I'm seeing wants to meet up, but I'm thinking about breaking things off. That will be another post.

Then it will be Monday morning before we know it :(

I think I need to switch the weekend to work ratio from 2:5 to 5:2. Or 7:0 and be retired! Too many interesting things to do to spend so much time at work!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3318 | Registered: Dec 2011
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trying to finish up the results from my charity tournament that was in September. Oops. Just need to type like mad. Been lazy.

Saturday I need to clean like mad, inside and outside. Would like to take my daughter out shopping for at least a new shirt as she has a special occasion coming up I would like her to look and feel good for.

Sunday is our Santa Claus Parade in my town. They set up right behind my house. I can watch some of the floats getting ready all morning. My parents and my sister with her 3 little kids are coming over. I'll make a big pot of spaghetti for after.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5429 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am finally, finally, going to get a little down time this weekend. First it was non-stop houseguests (for 10 weeks), then we had a new woodstove to install, then it's been a solid 3 weeks of cutting firewood and clearing out the mess of slash left from a friend's boyfriend that I stupidly allowed to come cut wood on my place last winter.

Me & the Bear have been working our butts off to get ready for winter, and I think we're almost there (thank God!)

On the plus side......I've gotten to spend some time hanging out with my mom, the Bear, and grandson at some pretty cool bonfires over the past few weeks. I shoulda stocked up on weenies and marshmallows!

I'm sitting here now with a nice fire in the woodstove, stew on the kitchen stove, and sitting on my raggedy butt. It's been raining and should turn to snow later tonight.

Ahhhhhhh!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm drinking cabernet. I know. *shocker*


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About to have pizza & movie night with the kiddos.

Since the kids will be spending a lot of time with EX this weekend I'm going to spend time singing at home. And packing the last of someone's stuff in The Garage.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm gonna make lavender bath bombs for Christmas gifts and babysit my GDs tomorrow night.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7180 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a good one: I am spending only the third night in nine years without either of my children, 7 and 8. Both will be at sleepovers!

I have no exciting plans except to RELAX. Maybe I'll rent a movie!


Posts: 1668 | Registered: Oct 2011
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine has finally started--work ends at 12:30am on Friday night. Tomorrow I'm going on a geology hike, then I'm scoping out a new (to me) bead store.

Sunday there's a birding outing in the morning on the Mohawk River, then football.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20035 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A little shopping today, now being lazy on the couch drinking Cabernet as well.

On Saturday, Operation Shoebox packing party at church, after that 40th birthday party to attend to at the local Yacht Club. Thinking about going out to dance after that but not sure yet.

On Sunday, church in the morning and then no plans other than possibly sorting old pictures and finally putting them into frames. But then, you never know who and what might be lurking around the corner....

All in all, looking forward to a bit slower weekend.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1247 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spending my weekend in Marin/SF - 2 birthdays to celebrate (one in a swanky SF penthouse!) and then sailing on the bay on Sunday. I really need a fun weekend, so I'm hoping this is it.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 446 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I worked late on Friday night. Today, I'm going to an auction - my friend is the auctioneer. I'm going to try to cut my grass before I go. After the auction, going to eat with a friend.

Sunday, maybe a movie....


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7569 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night was movie night with the kiddos, and then I got caught up on some TV shows I missed during the week.

Today, I've been running around and doing chores all morning; the kiddos and I have a raking session in a few, and then it's off to run a few errands. After that, we're visiting Grandma and Grandpa.

Sunday is the usual: grocery shopping, chores, grading and correcting.

Have a great weekend!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3575 | Registered: Oct 2011
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are going to see the Rockettes in the Radio City Christmas Spectacular this afternoon. I haven't seen this show in 15 - 20 years. I am so looking forward it. The only thing that would be better is if we actually we seeing it in NYC but instead we will be in ATL.

Afterwards dinner at Ruth Chris. It's going to be a great day.

Tomorrow is relaxation.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3407 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh! Jammies weekends are my favorite kinds of weekends!

My kids are with their idiot father so I'm going to catch up on errands like I usually do when they are with him. It's the only time I can get things done.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1572 | Registered: Aug 2010
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hanging out with IrishLad and doing a little house cleaning/organizing. May do a movie night tonight and then see what tomorrow brings


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did absolutely nothing last night besides chatting with SO for a bit. I was in pjs, and bed, really early. I ended up blogging for a bit so I didn't fall asleep as early as I thought I might, but it was still a very quiet evening.

Today I've already dropped a carload of old electronics off at a recycling event, then went to Aldi's to stock up on butter, eggs and other Thanksgiving feast baking items. I think I'm going to whip out my pumpkin cheesecakes for Thanksgiving this weekend, then freeze them.

I still need to move my plants back out of the garage, where I put them during the week when the cold front blew threw. And I have a lot of cleaning to do. But I suspect I'll be sitting on my ass quite a bit today, doing a whole lot of nothing.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12144 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And packing the last of someone's stuff in The Garage.

(sarcastic humour) Thanks NG! Now I have to add to my weekend To Do list waiting on an update from the saga that is your Garage


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dinner at Ruth Chris.

Oh nom! We don't have them here in Canadaland.

I just slept the whole afternoon away. It was fab-u-lous.

I have a date with Netflix.

Tomorrow will have to glance at those history readings for seminar on Monday. We had the week off for Remembrance Day so now I have lazybrainz.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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