The ONLY truth I've gotten from this man is FROM the OW's BH! He was disputing a lie my WH made to piss him off and he proved he was wrong by naming MY car as the auto he used to go see his lover. OF course he didn't tell me, he doesn't say anything unless somebody else tells me.
I thought up to today he "was starting" to get it. clearly after today's events, him back-stabbing me to the OW's BH even after I warned him it would be the final straw. He doesn't care, he wants it to end obviously, I'll just give him his wish.