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User Topic: Abbondad Part 5
momentintime
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I assume she signed the MSA. Hope you didn't agree to anymore of her controlling and hurtful conditions.

I know this is a tough day, but a great burden has been lifted, you are now FREE to start a new life. You can ignore her craziness for the most part and deal with finances and kiddos only.

[This message edited by momentintime at 10:08 AM, April 1st (Tuesday)]


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 2901 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
KickedintheGut
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow AD. Just wow. I hope this gives you some relief to begin your new life with your boys.


Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11

Posts: 492 | Registered: Nov 2010
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Hell AD come on. You can just post that and nothing else.
We have been cheering you on for over a year and a half.

We want to know what happened

I would never do that to you guys! Just running around busily and wanted to give the quick announcement. Will post later with all the details :-)

I feel good, strong, relieved, vindicated.

Thank you!!!!!!!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1571 | Registered: Dec 2012
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have survived her narcissistic egotistical ass!


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have survived her narcissistic egotistical ass!

Unfortunetly, he has the next however many years left until the kids are graduated collage basically (or 18, depending on how long the CS lasts in your state).

Either way - i am just greatful that you are no longer married to her. Has to be a huge relief.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1684 | Registered: Sep 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel good, strong, relieved, vindicated.
This is the best thing I've read all week.

Congratulations, AD. Now go get your sunshine!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24435 | Registered: Aug 2011
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy that you persevered Abb!

You went thru hell to get here, but now YOU can limit your interaction with her, and she can't do a damn thing about it!!!!!

Hope it went your way, to your relief.

Sending strength.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1265 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
confused615
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful!!!!!



BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7139 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hell YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congrats AD!!!!


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6073 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Klove
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel good, strong, relieved, vindicated

yes!


"But stand still is all I did
Love like ours is never fixed
Still I stuck around
I did behave
I saved you every time
I was a fool for love
I was a fool for love"

Posts: 294 | Registered: Jan 2014
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!

What a long, strange trip this has been, AD.

Onward and upward!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 4957 | Registered: May 2007
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats AD!!!!

I am so happy for you. You should feel Strong, and Vindicated!!!!!

You stuck to your guns, and did what was right for you and your kids. It served you well.
Now she has no right to enter your home, she has no right to tell you what to do, and it will chap her ass that her craziness, and manipulations have no more control over you.

You my friend have come a long long long way.

Woo HOO!!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7799 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
alphakitte
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phew! I can exhale, now.


------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

Posts: 347 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dad, congratulations on the first day of the rest of your life!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4850 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so pleased for you and so proud of you. Your journey symbolizes all that is wonderful about SI... You never stopped reaching out and got great support and most importantly you listened.

You have survived hell and never lost sight of what was best for your kids. Well done.

I hope you will stick around?

I look forward to following your journey, watching you heal, rediscover yourself and finding happiness and love with some one new sometime.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I don't usually say that because divorce is sad but I really believe this woman did you a favor.


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 3968 | Registered: Sep 2005
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm shocked, truly shocked that she signed and it's all done! I'm sure there was some drama today, but I'm thrilled for you!!! Time for you to find out what it feels like to tell her "you fired me from that job" next time she tries to force you to do something!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5372 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you! It may not seem like it today, but you WILL be so grateful for this one day!

There is life after D-- go get you some!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3523 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AD you're KILLING us!
We need the deets!


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6073 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you....I was thinking about this all day today!

New beginning!


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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