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User Topic: Abbondad Part 5
toby
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Default  Posted: 6:01 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't posted in a long time, but I've been following your threads from the beginning and wanted to wish good luck today!

Posts: 1537 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Texas
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
velveteer
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Default  Posted: 6:09 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good luck AD


Divorced

Posts: 861 | Registered: Jan 2011
Freeme
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!

Posts: 204 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Washington DC
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you tons of strength and mojo, AD.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24462 | Registered: Aug 2011
cdagal
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just a heads up.....if she is on benzos, is she drinking as well? If so, definitely have the psych eval ordered. I would go so far as to say that she shouldn't have the kids until she is off them. My XH was prescribed that shit, just about killed himself in a car accident while he "self-medicated", and then went through 2 hellish years of withdrawal. I'm convinced that it permanently altered his brain chemistry


M - 25 yrs
DDay - August 5, 2010
Divorced - December 12, 2011
He married the OW 35 days later
"Fall seven times, stand up eight" - Japanese proverb

Posts: 67 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Canada
5454real
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good luck brother.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2582 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending court MOJO!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck, prayers of strength, and resolution headed your way.

Mojo, and fingers crossed too.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7843 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today!!! We are all in your corner


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1678 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck AD


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2609 | Registered: Jan 2010
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go get 'em, Tiger!
Kick some butt today!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6112 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of luck AD!!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8407 | Registered: Apr 2008
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I. Am. Divorced.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1573 | Registered: Dec 2012
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((( AD)))))))))))

How are you doing?


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

April 1 will always be a red letter day. You are no fool Dad.

Congratulations!!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17177 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I. Am. Divorced.

Yay, you got there!

I hope you are doing ok now, onward to the next phase.

Take care of you and the kids.

((((AD))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Hell AD come on. You can just post that and nothing else.

We have been cheering you on for over a year and a half.

We want to know what happened.
I am sure you have a bit of melancholy with this, but dude this is the first day of the rest of your life.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7843 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!! It's done.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1678 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, but happy for you at the same time.

Nobody wins in a divorce.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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