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User Topic: Abbondad Part 5
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She signed. Focus on the positive and let her worry about the attorney situation.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1724 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does she not know her attorney has filed a Request to Withdraw?

I find that hilarious.

Is this a contract to sell the house? Does that mean you've sold it? If so, that's fantastic!


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1504 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Is this a contract to sell the house? Does that mean you've sold it? If so, that's fantastic!

Yes! :-)

As of April first I will be saving 2230.00 a month. No more mortgage.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1586 | Registered: Dec 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25033 | Registered: Aug 2011
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's that I see? Is that light? At the end of the tunnel?

I hope others see how becoming strong and striking to what matters works out in the end.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8222 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(Sung to the tune in the Rocky Horror Picture Show)

There's a liiiight! Over at Abbonddad's place!
There's a liii i iiight! Burning in the Harlot's face!
There's a light, light in the darkness, that once was ABDs life!

Congratulations! Now let's hope that your lawyer can drag her sorry butt to court ASAP!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best news I've heard all day! Fingers crossed all goes well with the inspection and closing.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 5:52 PM, March 1st (Saturday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17323 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YaY!!!!

She may not know her attorney is withdrawing.. he might just mail her the notice via snail mail. OR She could have borrowed money and re-retained him. Either way, It's not your problem.

UNTIL you have official notification from the court system, she still has an attorney.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5014 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My realtor has been contacted by STBX's new attorney. I'll get the info from my attorney tomorrow, but the new attorney is in some sort of "discount law firm."

[This message edited by Abbondad at 10:34 AM, March 2nd (Sunday)]


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1586 | Registered: Dec 2012
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the new attorney is in some sort of "discount law firm."

AD: please excuse me, but ....

You are doing such a great job, keep your eyes on the prize, you are almost there.

Meanwhile: STBXWW meet the karma bus!!

((((AD & kids))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2545 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't know there WAS such a thing as a "discount law firm".



k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6515 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure a discount law firm will work out great for her, I mean for you, at the trial.

YAY! The house sold. I'm so excited for you to move and have a place that belongs to only you and your children. You so deserve your own haven.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1504 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isnt that an oxymoron? A discount law firm?
I see things starting to unravel for her.

I'm gonna go grab a beer and some popcorn and wait for the show.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8222 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Meanwhile: STBXWW meet the karma bus!!
l

All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.

= No home sale profits for you!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1586 | Registered: Dec 2012
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omg, what does YOUR attorney say?


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1178 | Registered: Jun 2007
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AD - do you still get your portion of the sales proceeds?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25033 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jduff
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.

= No home sale profits for you!

THIS. IS. HILARIOUS!

Oh, how I love it when comeuppance is delivered by their own hand.

Maybe she gets a little taste of what "betrayal" tastes like from here former attorney.


Divorced - 5/23/14
Already in my New Beginning - :)

Posts: 445 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: texas
5454real
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AD, technically you're still married to her. you need to find out what your lawyer has to say about this. I am a little concerned about this because there is no MSA in place. how exposed are you?

that being said, I am really not that worried. however I do think you need to cover your ass.

strength


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2725 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My attorney has no concerns. I will get my profit from the home sale. If she won't sign the contract or tries to pull any nonsense we will use this as leverage against her to get the money she owes me and our children.

Around a year and a half ago, I sobbingly pleaded with her to stop her adultery. The memory is burned into my soul:

"Please stop hurting me. You will bring about calamity if you continue. Come back to your family. Please, you have everything. You will end up with nothing."

She stared at me with cold dead eyes.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1586 | Registered: Dec 2012
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.

= No home sale profits for you!


What? She wasn't able to dazzle him with bullshit?

Dad-you'd better get ready for a ramp up on the crazy. She will, no doubt, be looking to take this out on you. I bet she signed because she needed the money. Do you know if the lien takes all her proceeds?



Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


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