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User Topic: Abbondad Part 5
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just visualize all of us sitting on your shoulders yelling "YOU GO DAD!"


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17498 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We all are behind you cheering for you today.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2708 | Registered: Jan 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strength, AD. We're all standing with you today.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25742 | Registered: Aug 2011
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dad,

We've got your back!!

Sending hugs and strength.

YOU CAN DO THIS!!!


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1304 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mediation MOJO your way. Kick ass AD, we got your back.

((((AD))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2606 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today!


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo
MoJo
MOJO

Positive thoughts and prayers too. All headed your way.
You got this!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8709 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
forgivinglola
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been following your story for awhile and I wanted to wish you good luck today!


DDay: 10/13/2009
Status: In R

Posts: 4 | Registered: May 2012 | From: MI
momentintime
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Send prayers and good thoughts. Major mojo coming your way. Take heart, this is winding down. Hopefully she won't have her entirely crazy hat on today.


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 2985 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of good thoughts for you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8459 | Registered: Apr 2008
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today!!
Sending lots of mojo and anti-whacko WS juice to you!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6528 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

~~~~~~~~~~~~~winning~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~vibes~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~go~~~~~~~~~~~~


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been thinking of you all day!! Hope it all went well.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5524 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
confused615
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Patiently waiting for good news....

Strength, AD.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7683 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
NewMom0220
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also sending good vibes and waiting to hear the news.


Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 374 | Registered: Apr 2013
swizzlestick03
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also hoping for a super positive update!!!!


Me: BW-33
Him: WS-32
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.

Posts: 571 | Registered: Nov 2010
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping for a good update soon!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw, thanks everyone. :-) Seven-hour mediation resulting in settlement--that is being drafted so not yet signed. It ain't over ti it's over. Utterly drained and will post more details ASAP.

But: could have gone better, could have gone worse.

I get around 56% overnights and EOW.

She pays me CS 866.00 month.

400.00 more every month until home sells by June deadline.

She gets half the marital portion of my pension, I get half her 401k. But she won't get my pension (and it's not much) for almost 20 years; I get half her 401k immediately.

Looks like no trial unless she pulls some more BS and won't sign; I won't be surprised.

I feel good, I feel vindicated, my kids will be OK.

She is enraged. So said the mediator, and I just saw her and her face was a mask of white fury. It spelled R-E-A-L-I-T-Y.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1627 | Registered: Dec 2012
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG AD, you did GREAT.

Wish you would have sold tickets to see the smoke coming out of CSTBXWW's ears.

You get all the rest you need, you have successfully gotten over this massive hurdle.

Fingers crossed that she just signs and gets it over with.

((((AD))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2606 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad that you feel vindicated and so happy for you about the weekends. As time goes on that 56% will go up higher unless she's doing the right things. It seems that it has worked out financially for you as well? Stay strong in the face of that fury and just great big hugs for you! ((((((AD))))))


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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