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User Topic: Update on Mom in hospice
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
I am so sorry for your loss.


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss, NIK.

She will be forever watching over her family.

Sending prayers (((NIK and family)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I give you this one thought to keep--
I am with you still--I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not think of me as gone--
I am with you still--in each new dawn.

Native American Prayer

So very sorry for your loss, NIK.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2105 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family are in our prayers.

I am sorry for your loss.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
unfound
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh NIK, I'm so sorry.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14832 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

Keeping you in my thoughts... I'm so sorry.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus. Be mindful, compassionate, and responsible… Something valuable I learned on SI. :)

Posts: 3900 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and Family)))

I am so sorry for your loss.

Strength and Mojo and prayers.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2694 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1654 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4141 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so much. I can't begin to describe how much your support has lifted me over the past week. Our family is gathering today, and services begin tomorrow. The blessings of a large family are on full display at times like these - love all around us.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have the words to make any of this easier. I wish there were some.

I know you find comfort in the support here, you are so well respected and loved on SI.

I hope the collective hugs, strength and prayers help you during this sad time.

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom sounded like a wonderful woman.

Prayers through your next few difficult days.

(((NIK)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3793 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and sorrow for you and your family. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2091 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK and family))


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
mom of 2
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sincerest condolences. Wishing for strength to you and your family.


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)


Posts: 13296 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
leapyearbaby
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nic....

Don't mean to threadjack this very important and painful event for you, but I wanted to correct something I wrote in an early post. It wasn't my H that died, but my H's father. Apparently my fingers did not type that crucial word 'father'....


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


Posts: 1375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Colorado
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, I am so very sorry for your loss. It's clear your mom was a very special person, not just from what you've said, but also clear by who you are. I wish you and your family strength and pray that your memories of your mom will bring you comfort. Much love to you and yours. <3


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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