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User Topic: Update on Mom in hospice
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
I am so sorry for your loss.


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


Growing forward

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Sep 2011
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss, NIK.

She will be forever watching over her family.

Sending prayers (((NIK and family)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1265 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I give you this one thought to keep--
I am with you still--I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not think of me as gone--
I am with you still--in each new dawn.

Native American Prayer

So very sorry for your loss, NIK.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2094 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family are in our prayers.

I am sorry for your loss.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
unfound
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh NIK, I'm so sorry.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14823 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

Keeping you in my thoughts... I'm so sorry.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

Posts: 3882 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and Family)))

I am so sorry for your loss.

Strength and Mojo and prayers.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2558 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1652 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so much. I can't begin to describe how much your support has lifted me over the past week. Our family is gathering today, and services begin tomorrow. The blessings of a large family are on full display at times like these - love all around us.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have the words to make any of this easier. I wish there were some.

I know you find comfort in the support here, you are so well respected and loved on SI.

I hope the collective hugs, strength and prayers help you during this sad time.

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom sounded like a wonderful woman.

Prayers through your next few difficult days.

(((NIK)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3775 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and sorrow for you and your family. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciling after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2079 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK and family))


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
mom of 2
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sincerest condolences. Wishing for strength to you and your family.


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)


Posts: 13288 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
leapyearbaby
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nic....

Don't mean to threadjack this very important and painful event for you, but I wanted to correct something I wrote in an early post. It wasn't my H that died, but my H's father. Apparently my fingers did not type that crucial word 'father'....


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


Posts: 1375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Colorado
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, I am so very sorry for your loss. It's clear your mom was a very special person, not just from what you've said, but also clear by who you are. I wish you and your family strength and pray that your memories of your mom will bring you comfort. Much love to you and yours. <3


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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