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User Topic: Update on Mom in hospice
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts through this rough time.


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

Posts: 6268 | Registered: Dec 2010
Peaches2013
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))

I am so sorry for your loss.


Me: BS
Him: WH ONS/short EA
Married 11 years
Together 15 years
2 children

Posts: 64 | Registered: Oct 2013
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. But glad she is now at peace. Remember the good times.

You will always carry her in your heart.

(((((NIK)))))


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3442 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

(((((((NIK and Family))))))


Posts: 3308 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss.


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13648 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and Family)))


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 20937 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and Family)))


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 20937 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

Your mom sounds like an amazing woman. I know she will be greatly missed. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.

As always, prayers.


Posts: 1217 | Registered: Feb 2010
Fireball72
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences on your loss. She sounded like a wonderful person.

Keeping you and yours in our thoughts. (((hugs)))


XBS - 42 and fabulous :D
Remarried happily in 2013
A relationship is built for two. But apparently, some bitches don't know how to count!

Posts: 602 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: The Chesapeake Bay
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad your mom is not suffering anymore, but your dad and the rest of your family have the hard part now. You'll be in my prayers.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2660 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik))))


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1588 | Registered: Mar 2004
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))))

Sounds like she had a very peaceful passing. How nice for your dad.

Your Stienbeck quote brought a tear to my, when a close friend passed it was one used at his wake.

Peace, and strength be with you.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7827 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family are in my thoughts. Plain song isn't available right now, but if she were, she'd join me in saying we're so sorry for your loss.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9773 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1593 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Texas
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Even knowing that she was preparing to "Go Home" it is still a painful and jarring loss.

Holding you in my thoughts.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24361 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))))


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4040 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13569 | Registered: Jul 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((nik and family)))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4556 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sad for you, NIK. Losing a parent makes us feel disconnected from the universe. Take care of yourself in the days ahead. Hugs.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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