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User Topic: Update on Mom in hospice
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and good thoughts


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24507 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and folks))))


Posts: 7025 | Registered: Dec 2010
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17389 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK & family))))

Thinking of you all, sending you peace, love and strength.

((((more hugs))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2586 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( NIK and family )))


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6440 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK AND FAMILY)))

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Sep 2007
foxglove
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Keeping you and your family in my prayers.


Me (BS)47
XH (WS)53
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two sons 21 and 23 in college

Posts: 1453 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Northern Michigan
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Nik and family))


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7640 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK, Mom, Dad and family))))

NIK, My Mom was in hospice too----so I really know how you feel. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Sending you strength.

[This message edited by mchercheur at 8:02 PM, November 11th (Monday)]


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4165 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
leapyearbaby
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. It is so tough.
Since my H's unexpected death last month, we have finally gotten around to writing our own wills, POA and End of Life care plans....decades late.

As I was writing them, I am imagining putting my daughters in the position of making that kind of decision. It's really hard.....


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


Posts: 1375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Colorado
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Jan 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, everyone. I really appreciate it.

leapyear - I am so very sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25289 | Registered: Aug 2011
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and family))))

Prayers to you all NIK, what a difficult time.

Bless you all.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK & family)))

Prayers for you all.

Also, (((leapyearbaby))).


Posts: 1248 | Registered: Feb 2010
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and peace.

Hugs
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5065 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you holding up, NIK?

I know how hard these days are for you. Praying peace and comfort for everyone.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Nik & Dad & Mom))))) I am so sorry for the pain you all are going through...
My thoughts and prayers are with you all...

God is watching and helping.


Posts: 2485 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to thank you all for the amazing support you've given me. My mom passed away this afternoon. She went very peacefully, with my father holding her hand and thanking her for the life and family they built together.

My mom was a remarkable person - a teacher by calling, a compassionate activist, and a natural leader. She left an indelible mark on all who were fortunate enough to know her.

“It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone.”
― John Steinbeck, The Winter of Our Discontent

The world is darker tonight.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Nik)))))

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm keeping you in my heart and thoughts.


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