For a long while, I noticed a similar theme with all of XWH's "friends". Every one of them tried to befriend my kids. I actually caught one of them asking my then 10 year old daughter about who her dad's other "friends" are and if any of them spend the night.
Needless to say, they all got shut down hard and fast. Me - 41
My Rockstar (Hubs #2) - 46, faithful, & an absolute doll!
DD(20) and DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs and 2 Cats)
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW. Undiagnosed SA?)
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