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Topic: What are some new "rituals" you have with WS since D-Day?
Member # 40298
Posted: 7:29 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013
We used to have coffee in the morning together only on the weekends. Now we have coffee together every morning before he goes out the door to work. He used to rush out the door in the morning, but now he gets up a few minutes earlier so that we can have our "coffee time." Baby steps...
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 33549
Posted: 7:37 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013
We sleep holding hands or in each others arms throughout the night...we go to the gym together everyday...he helps me in the kitchen.
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
Posts: 598 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 35004
Posted: 7:58 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013
We turn off the TV during dinner and talk about our mutual day. Sometimes I add candlelight. FWH is being a lot more helpful around the house.
BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
Doing well with R
Posts: 1004 | Registered: Mar 2012
Member # 15902
Posted: 9:47 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013
Definitely coffee time. It's amazing how little things can make such a huge difference.
Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled
Posts: 5624 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 39588
Posted: 11:15 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013
Once a week we sit by the fire pit with wine or hot chocolate and just talk about anything and everything. It's so peaceful and relaxing, even when the subject become difficult. He also wakes me to say goodbye every morning (he leaves before 5).
Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".
Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
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