Topic: What are some new "rituals" you have with WS since D-Day?
Member # 40298
| Posted: 7:29 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
We used to have coffee in the morning together only on the weekends. Now we have coffee together every morning before he goes out the door to work. He used to rush out the door in the morning, but now he gets up a few minutes earlier so that we can have our "coffee time." Baby steps...
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 33549
| Posted: 7:37 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
We sleep holding hands or in each others arms throughout the night...we go to the gym together everyday...he helps me in the kitchen.
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
Posts: 611 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 35004
| Posted: 7:58 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
We turn off the TV during dinner and talk about our mutual day. Sometimes I add candlelight. FWH is being a lot more helpful around the house.
BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
Doing well with R
Posts: 1033 | Registered: Mar 2012
Member # 15902
| Posted: 9:47 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
Definitely coffee time. It's amazing how little things can make such a huge difference.
Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
Posts: 5654 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 39588
| Posted: 11:15 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
Once a week we sit by the fire pit with wine or hot chocolate and just talk about anything and everything. It's so peaceful and relaxing, even when the subject become difficult. He also wakes me to say goodbye every morning (he leaves before 5).
Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".
Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
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