Topic: OW flirting with DD16's boyfriend
Member # 30742
| Posted: 11:41 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
So, DD16 could not be stopped today spilling the beans on her father and Sparkly Panties. I just let her vent for almost 2 hours straight. I literally could not get a word in...
What triggered the vent was the following story DD16 just had to share with me:
The weekend before Halloween, XH and Sparkly Panties (38 years old) went to a party. When they came back, Sparkly Panties was drunk. DD16 was on Facetime with her boyfriend, who is a total sweetheart. Sparkly Panties barged into DD16s room (which already pissed off DD16 because of the intrusion of privacy). Then Sparkly Panties made herself comfortable on DD16s bed as if they were good buddies and started talking to DDs boyfriend. DD16 asked her to leave but Sparkly Panties decided to have some fun and started flirting (according to DD16) with the boyfriend, making all kinds of awkward, slippery remarks and did not leave until about 15 minutes later with DD16 almost in tears.
DD16 as she concluded the story: "Mom, Sparkly Panties had no respect for your marriage, what would make me think she would respect my relationship? She is just a cheap whore."
I can't even begin to understand why anybody would act like that. This is also the second time in a few weeks that I have gotten word about her being drunk and obnoxious around family members. She sure sounds like a class act - NOT.
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Posts: 1143 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 37215
| Posted: 12:31 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
I'm glad she shared what happened with you. How sad though.
Hugs to your DD16!
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Member # 10798
| Posted: 2:01 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Ick. Just Ick.
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Posts: 2048 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
Member # 26928
| Posted: 2:06 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Your poor DD.
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Posts: 5280 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: United States
Member # 32554
| Posted: 2:11 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
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Together 20 years
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Posts: 8431 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 28997
| Posted: 2:33 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
"Mom, Sparkly Panties had no respect for your marriage, what would make me think she would respect my relationship? She is just a cheap whore."
Nice to see your DD recognises the scum of the earth when she sees it.
Poor kid. However it is so wonderful to see her recognise fucktardness.
Obviously , you raised her right. Good for you fraeuken.
Married 30yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 59yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Believed him.
Dday May 28 2010. Found out all in 3 weeks:
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA until dday).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
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Posts: 2720 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Member # 33523
| Posted: 4:30 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Good for your DD in recognizing bullshit when she sees it. But, wtf is wrong w/OW, flirting w/a child???
Yes, I know. OW is a pile of dog shit. But, seriously, WTF???
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OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
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Posts: 606 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Member # 35812
| Posted: 5:01 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Can you get this to your lawyer to request that DD16 can make up her own mind if she wants to see XPOS and Sparkly Pantiees? That is, assuming that she doensn't already have the legal option of saying that she'd rather be dipped in acid before going to The House of Hos any more.
Ok advise DD to keep a bucket of water by her bed and the next time Sparklie comes into her room, to dump it over her head like she would for any other rabid beyotch in heat.
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Posts: 3799 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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