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notmychoice
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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate him. He is such a narcissist! Everything he does is about what he wants/needs. He told me he will be breaking up with the ow in two weeks in order to 'get his family back and straiten out his life'. I asked why two weeks? And was told he has his reasons. He does not trust me 100% to tell me what is going on. He does not trust me!? I am not the one that cheated, lied, and stole! I am not the one who has abandoned my own children and has not seen them since before Mother's Day! It's all about him and his timeline. When he is ready to make the move, until then we are supposed to accept that and the kids will want him in their life because he is ready to make it work. What a POS!!!! I want him to break up with the OW to hurt her. I could care less about him being with someone else. I would never go back to him. Never trust him again. I can't wait until he does it. I will always be on guard though....he lies all the time so he may keep their relationship secret in order to win his kids back. Time will tell.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

180 his ass. Right now.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7761 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
anewday78
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Change the locks before the two weeks is up. Let him know in no uncertain terms that he's not welcome back. He threw away his family and he doesn't get to decide when he's going to pull it out of the trash.

Posts: 350 | Registered: May 2013
NewMom0220
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go NC. It really helps to take the focus of him. Who cares what he wants? Who cares about his timeline or his reasons? This behavior is unacceptable and you don't deserve it and your kids don't deserve it. Go NC.


Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 374 | Registered: Apr 2013
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wouldn't it be nice if you had a recording of that conversation to give to OW? Or a copy of the email to forward? Not to give her a heads up, but to f*ck up his cozy little timeline. I can't imagine OW would like his "plans" at all.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1857 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
notmychoice
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do plan on sending a smiley face to the OW on Facebook when/if he does the deed. If anyone has a better idea, let me know. I would like it to be real 'special'. This has been going on for more than two weeks. He actually left in January. I basically have NC. I do my own thing with the kids and he has no clue that I have even moved out of the house or where I am living. He will find out from his lawyer, IF his lawyer would be doing his job.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone
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