After months of going back and forth I left my husband today. Me and the kids are staying with my parents.
I talked about things last night, when I initially told him I didn't think we could work things out. Today I had him call me when he got off work so that I could read him a note I had written listing my reasons for leaving. After reading it, he proceeded to tell me why he thought we could still work it out and what he thought we needed to do to fix things.
We ended up being on the phone for 1.5 hours. I feel like he promised the moon and stars. But I doubt he will live up to it. For now I am committed to living separately - if there really will be R, he's going to have to show me he can fight for me.
I've seen this story before and I'm pretty sure I know the ending. Me: BW (30)
Him: WH (31)
2 DDs - 4yrs & 18mo (as of April 2014)
In the process of discovery and D preparations...