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User Topic: Grrr! No karma for OW-Vent!
purplejacket4
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Angry  Posted: 4:16 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! If yesterday's lambasting by joint commission wasn't bad enough today I get to see an email from the President of the Health Science Center announcing the State of the University speech for Thursday afternoon. AND bitch c**t OW is getting not ONE but TWO fucking awards for interprofessional development. You know, the INTERprofessional relations she had when she fucked my fWS! Grrr! Really, bitch, you are getting to be on TV and a medal and a big ass check for sending my fWS sexts and doing other assorted shit. I CANNOT believe how unfair this all is. If fWS was still working at the HSC she would be getting one of these awards also. I mentioned this to her and she said "I'd call in sick first before I would have accepted that award." I guess that is at least something. I'm just SO FUCKING ANGRY!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have known some folks who were VERY successful professionally and looked to have everything from the outside - but they were wrecks in their personal life. So keep that in mind, it's likely she's not a happy person or she wouldn't have been chasing your S/O.


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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I think I can
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, doesn't Abbondad's crazy stbx do well professionally? But that ain't real life.....


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It does seem unfair, doesn't it?

Just remember this. Let her climb. Because the higher she rises, the further she'll have to fall and the bigger her *splat* will be.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She may be getting awards on the outside but on the inside her ugliness is in control. She is a broken person, and no amount of public accolades will change that.

Aaand... Deep down inside she knows it.


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks you guys for the upbeat remarks!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because the higher she rises, the further she'll have to fall and the bigger her *splat* will be.....

((((pj))))

That kind of thing just MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL

I'm glad that fWS seems to have had the right response, it seems that she has your feelings at the forefront. That is a positive step.

((((pj))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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