You're an inspiration! Great job :)
I especially love this:
"The only bad part is that I am sure he thinks I am doing this because I am a "bitch", that I want all his money, and I am being spiteful because of what he has done. I don't think so, I just am not going to be a pushover like I have been in the past."
This is my situation exactly. I've been called a 'greedy bitch' because I'm after what I'm legally entitled to. He seems to think his retirement $$ is entirely his, 'what he's worked hard for his whole life!' and I should keep my grubby hands off it Yes, we'll see about that!
Well done MS!