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User Topic: 1,000 Post Party for Abbondad!!!!!
MovingUpward
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Happy  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!! I know that you are in a continual struggle with your stbxww. Thank you for being able to reach out to so many others and help them out during all of this.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51485 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, Abbondad!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24414 | Registered: Aug 2011
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats :)


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!

Posts: 33821 | Registered: Mar 2011
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196408 | Registered: May 2002
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!! Congrats on 1,000+ posts


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3322 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yaaay!! You've come a long way, AD!

(Someone might need to ping him... I'm not sure he's ever been in here... )


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16359 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way To Go!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24339 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2633 | Registered: Oct 2012
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6306 | Registered: Jan 2011
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 4:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Thanks for alerting me that this was going on down here!

You people are incredible.

I had no idea that there were 1,000 posts. Frankly I'm a little embarrassed! I feel like I came in and took over the SI forums.

But you all flocked to my side and got me where I am today. I have said it before, but now is a good opportunity to say it again: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I honestly do not believe I would have been able to find my strength to file if it hadn't been for SI. I would still likely have been in limbo enduring agonizing emotional abuse.

I have supportive family, friends, and therapist IRL. They all urged me toward the path I am now on. But the truth is, like a bereavement or any support group, nobody understands the trauma of infidelity unless they have gone through it. Cliched, but true.

To think: faceless, pseudonymed people in cyberspace played a crucial role in facing and conquering the most devastating decision and trauma of my life. It amazes me.

And I resolve to always give back to the many people here. It's the least I can do.

Again, just thank you--thank you so much. You are the good ones in life.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1571 | Registered: Dec 2012
openedupmyeyes
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Happy  Posted: 5:58 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah! AD.


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 760 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo! Abbondad!!! Glad you are in a better spot b/c of all your different support groups!


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Abb! **standing up clapping**


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1263 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25351 | Registered: Sep 2005
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on dipping your toe into F&G. Did you bring wine?

You're amazing. Keep going.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17132 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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