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User Topic: Can't sleep, feeling sad, need a hug
Ms_Strong
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Couldn't sleep all night, I feel alone and sad. My BF and I may be breaking up, just feel so sad about it. My first relationship since D.
It's bringing back memories of the end of the M, and that feeling of its going to happen, those words that lead to breaking up.
I think I may have talked my BF into realizing the love of his life isn't me but another girl he dated 2years ago.
Feel so sad.


Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs

Posts: 269 | Registered: Jan 2011
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello MsStrong.

Sorry to read you are suffering and sad.

Maybe you need to breach the subject with him? Maybe having a talk about why you are feeling this way may give you some clear answers.

Worst case scenario is he does what to end things... But at least then you will known and can start working on your healing.

I see our originals D Days were the same week!!! You have come so far... You can Survive this too.

Take care


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
timeforchange
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Member # 27454
Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry forgot the hugs

(((((((((((MsStrong)))))))))))


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Ms_Strong))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25532 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms_Strong)))

Posts: 35415 | Registered: Mar 2011
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no amazing words of advice here. Dating is hard.

So I send you great big hugs from Canada and hope you feel better soon.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you big hugs from California. I went through a breakup recently too and while it was the right thing to do it was more difficult than any other breakup aside from my marriage.

Hang in there, maybe things will turn out for you and BF after all!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1257 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms_Strong)))

Life can be so hard some times.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms_Strong)))

Sad as it makes you feel, I think it's better for you than being with someone who isn't into the relationship the same way. Better to find out the truth now. You deserve so much more!!

tbh


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2338 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms. Strong)))


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2688 | Registered: Jan 2010
gardenparty
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((hugs))


divorced!

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Ms_Strong)))))))

Better to find out now then later.

Still hurts,

More hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5162 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms_Strong)))


The best way to cheer yourself up is to try and cheer someone else up. - Mark Twain

Posts: 17571 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ms Strong)))


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15246 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you doing today, Ms_Strong?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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