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User Topic: It's My Birthday - Thank You SI!
want_to_forgive
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is my 39th Birthday. I am so excited to see what this coming year will bring.

Last year at this time I was married to a man who not did not value me or the vows we made. I was so sad and resigned to the fact that I was never going to have the kind of love that I wanted so desperately.

What a difference a year can make! Itís been a roller coaster ride but I am on the other side. Six months out from my divorce and so grateful to be in this place. Dating a wonderful man I trust 100% and he treats me like a princess. I have my own home, a great job, and wonderful family and friends.

My 18 year old DD graduated high school in May. She has moved thousands of miles away for school, but shows me so much appreciation and love that my heart overflows with joy every time I speak with her. 14-17 were pretty tough years with her, it is so amazing to see how she has grown.

Today, on the 1st day of my last year in my 30ís, I am claiming my new beginning. Iím not sure I would have made it through without all of the wonderful support I received from the amazing SI community. I am going to take everything I have learned from this site and my IC and do it right in the second half of my life. Thank you all so much!


M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!!


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

Posts: 13770 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52326 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2337 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fabulous post, honey. Happy Birthday!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Sweetie!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to read your positive update!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesterday was my birthday too! Happy birthday to us!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, darling!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3305 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
want_to_forgive
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the Birthday wishes! Had the best weekend ever. My best friend rented a limo for my party and filled it with great friends.

We were chauffeured to dinner, then off to the local karaoke hang out. Stayed out till 3 a.m.!!! Saturday was a little rough but it was totally worth it.

Looking forward to seeing other NB'ers birthday fun throughout the year. HUGS!


M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
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