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CryingFool
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW from Friday just texted our phone. I have it today because our regular cells are off due to lack of funds (they are pre paid) in case I need to get hold of someone. WH is working. She texted Monday and I texted her back "this is WH wife. lose this number. thanks and bye." That was after she called the phone and I answered. She actually asked for him. When I told her no and that I was his wife she hung up on me. Now she just texted again after no contact since Monday. Im shaking and idk what to do. Do I just ignore it since she obviously doesn't take a hint? Or text her again? This sucks that this just keeps happening! I just want it to stop!!

Posts: 6 | Registered: Oct 2013
CryingFool
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im almost tempted to pretend Im him and see what she says.

Posts: 6 | Registered: Oct 2013
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stupid whore!!!!!!!

FTWhore!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
losingmyground
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would show it to your WH. Ask him to respond.


Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

Posts: 291 | Registered: Jul 2012
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You tell her either verbally or preferably in text so that you have documented proof that. You have asked nicely, and now are demanding it. To Cease and Desist immediately or you will contact an attorney, and file charges of harrassement. You also make sure she understands that it is from both of you. Not just you, not just him, but both.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7791 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
plainpain
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would text back, 'Get some self respect'.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 724 | Registered: Jul 2013
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ignore calls, ignore texts.

Send her a no contact letter, with a warning that any future harassment will be responded with harassment charges being filed as well as a restraining order. Have it signed by you, WH and an attorney.

Then, DOCUMENT and save.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 840 | Registered: Jan 2013
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These OW's are really something else. Who does that? They have no values, morals or self respect. I can;t believe they feel they are entitled to keep calling, texting, or whatever! Piss me off!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2608 | Registered: Aug 2011
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has HE sent her a nc letter? If not, he needs to. I didn't know about SI on DD, so I sent ow a stop contact now text. My ws should have, well he's still seeing her so diff situation but have him tell her while your there.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4705 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you block her number?


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 1997 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
maddmurph
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you block her number?

We just did this on my wife's phone.


Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
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