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Sleepy312
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My good friend was murdered the day before my wedding. If I ever bring him up my husband immediately shuts me down and tells me not to talk about it. It's done. It's over.(kind of like his cheating ironically).

WTF? Why does he think it's unacceptable to speak of my friend? My H never even knew him. One more negatives about this person I can't seem to cut myself away from.


Me 41
Dh 40
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 17 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to


Posts: 477 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Nj
Raven96
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry about your friend. I'm even more sorry your WH isn't being nice about it. It sounds like he has avoidance issues. Doesn't work that way. Do you still have mutual friends that you can talk about the memory of your friend with? Your WH is probably hurting you even more with his insensitivity to your feelings and wanting to talk occasionally. UGH!

(((Sleepy312)))


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 328 | Registered: Aug 2013
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does your husband has issues dealing with emotions or is there something in his past? Sure sounds like he is avoiding it for some big reason.


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Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

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Sleepy312
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H and his entire family have avoidance issues. He's a
Gaslighter too. None of them deal with the elephant in the room. I've been having some discussions about this with sister in laws husband.


Me 41
Dh 40
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 17 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to


Posts: 477 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Nj
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