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User Topic: How old was your WS when they cheated?
struggling16
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

70. The AP was 25. Sickening, isn't it?

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heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Him: 40

OW: 44


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

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mindbody
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same as momentintime:

He: 55 OW: 33


Posts: 305 | Registered: Mar 2010
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

27


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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Oldernotwiser
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First time 23, then 24, 25. Next I know about was what I would call inappropriate friendship at age 50. Lots of questions about the in between. Last female was half his age, what can I say- he makes a good living? I don't think it's his six pack abs!


Me BS 54
WH 55
Married 34 years
2 grown sons
2 PA ? EA's didn't develop due to discovery

Posts: 85 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest USA
whattheh
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

55


BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 545 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
meplusfour
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

38


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 366 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
cantbelieve
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Him 49
Her 43


Me: BS (58)
Him: WS (58)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(26)
DD(23)
DD(20)
Married 29 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again

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fadedrainbow
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 55.
OW was early 40's


me: FBW
D-Day May 2005
divorced December 2009


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

43 dumb ass years old! (acting as if he was 21 again)

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 12:34 PM, October 31st (Thursday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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notquiteoverit
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was 47 at the time. His AP was 50.


Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

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sportsfan
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

42

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cindee
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

45... We went through the stereotypical mid-life crisis.


Me(51)-BS
Him (43)-WS
3 grown children (mine fr former mrg)
4 grandchildren
M- 25 yrs Feb. 2012
DDay 1-found out constant phone calls, texts and pics- 11/22/11 confronted same night
DDay 2- 3/25/12 found out false NC, H recommitted to NC
Hopin

Posts: 37 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Phoenix,AZ
njgal480
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The affair started when he turned 50.


Me- BS
Him- WH
Long term marriage
D-day- Jan. 2007
5 yr. LTA
Reconciled.


Posts: 3163 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: NJ
struggling3
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

54
OW 44


Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 28, 25, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

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prowoman
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Him 44 ow 20 when it started


me: BS 39 | stbxWH: 46
DD14, DS2
DDAY: Aug12... A continued "underground"
Separated Nov13 and Divorcing
OC Born May 14

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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

39, OW 27

total f'ing cliche


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

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Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fwh was 44
Slut 51
And looks it

And shatteredheart. She drives a green car too.
Hopefully soon she will drive it into a quarry


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fwh was 44
Slut 51
And looks it

And shatteredheart. She drives a green car too.
Hopefully soon she will drive it into a quarry


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

34 and OW was 24


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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