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User Topic: How old was your WS when they cheated?
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

41

Just a month after buying his dream sportscar...

cliche? He wins.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3772 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
WIgirl
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

39. She's 33ish, I think.

Yeah, he got a motorcycle about 5 months earlier too.


Me: 38 yo BW
Him: 40 yo WH
2 daughters (8, 5); married 15 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)
Separated/Divorcing

Posts: 49 | Registered: Sep 2013
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Around 30


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1633 | Registered: Jun 2008
toomanyregrets
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

33


BH - 64
fWW - 59

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife


Posts: 443 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex-w was 50, OM a year younger.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
mixedintherut
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD1 he was 22, she was 17
DD2 he is 25, he says she is 29 or 30 something, my info says she is 52.


DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 136 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
shatteredheart7
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He had just turned 42, she is the same age as him. I am 6 yrs younger than both of them. The woman he dated for a couple weeks after I left and filed for divorce was 50 and he was 44.

Funny thing I realized the other day. When he and I first met I had a green car. Cumdumpster has a green suv and the woman that he dated for a couple weeks has a green car. I have told him we will have no friends with a green car! EVER!


Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013
fooledbyapilot
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH - 42
OW - 23

How MLC


ME(BS):47 HIM (WS):50
WS Married 21 yrs together 33
dd#1- nov 16, 2009
DD#2-went out NYE 2009-found out Feb 2012
DD#2-Feb 5, 2010-date they had(found out Feb 2012)
dd#3 - June 16, 2010-broke NC
dd#4-Dec 31, 2010-broke contact
DD#5-Feb 21, 201

Posts: 186 | Registered: Nov 2009
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

30-35 were his A year's.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was 31 on Dday but we started dating when we were 20 and given what I know now... She probably started at age 20.

Posts: 1558 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
HoneyMe
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

45 it started, three A's later, it ended at age 55. It went on about 1/2 that time. I never knew!
Other women: Age 36 to 53

[This message edited by HoneyMe at 9:08 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.

Posts: 64 | Registered: Sep 2013
Stillheart
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was 47


Me:62 BH
Her:53 WW
Married: 26yrs
8 month affair
D-Day 11-10-08
Two Daughter: 18 & 22
In R and doing well

Posts: 25 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Oregon
Neznayou
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was 39.


Me: WW
DDay: 10 Aug 2012

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HormonalWoman
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 33. She was 23.

He tried texting her when he returned home but she couldn't reply as mummy still paid her phone bills and wouldn't like it if she was texting internationally it always amuses me to remember that.


Together 13 yrs
BW - Me
WH - Him
3 Children
DD 20th June 2010 actual affair was early 2008 for roughly 10 wks.

Posts: 241 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
No12turn2
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

31. First D Day was Friday the 13th. My second D Day was 1 month later on her birthday.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 499 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

#1 was while we were teenagers - so was she

#2 he was about to turn 40 OMG!!! I just realized that! Her? maybe 5-8 yrs younger

#3 53-56 (not exactly sure) and this POS is bitchface #1 AGAIN!!!

How utterly sad when I put these things down in writing


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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OldCow18
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH 48, OW 33.


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Started about 6 months before he turned 50....they went to HS together, She told him she had a crush on him all through HS, and with the way they are both acting you would think they are still in HS.

Yeah, no cliche here.


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

Posts: 45 | Registered: Jun 2013
chipmunk41
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH 48

OW 49


wake me up when it's over...

Posts: 45 | Registered: Sep 2013
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..she was 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36,..

old habits die hard, as they say.

..and it would have continued, had i not found out!

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 10:32 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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