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maddmurph
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So we had MC today. I came into with a topic I needed to talk about and it got away from me. She says she is trying but I don't feel hard enough. The MC says I'm asking too much and doesn't want to see that I need more. WW says she will do what I say she just needs the time to do it. I think she has had the time. I don't know if I give her another week or just put a shot across her bow.


Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

? Hmmm sounds like you may need a new one, I think she's more concerned with wifeys feelings than yours. Jmo of course


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..divorced slut who prefers committed men, specializing in befriending and bopping the fathers of her kids team mates
Status..%&$#@?$

Posts: 4001 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SERIOUSLY?????

Time to hit the reject button and start over with a new counselor.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really confused MadMurph.
I thought you were filing and this was a done deal. Why do you continue to engage with this remorseless woman, who now has the MC on her side?

I say fire the shot. Why should she get to dictate the terms of R? She was the one that broke things, I certainly wouldn't rely upon her and her decision making skills to make the terms of R.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6631 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your MC can suggest, explain, help you understand. He doesn't decide when its the right time for you. You think she has had enough time, doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. So my question is when you conclude this what is your next step? Where does this end up when you play this out? My guess is your just avoiding that outcome because your not ready for it yet. That is fine, but come to that decision on your terms, not because they decide when you have given enough time...... My guess is the end game is upon you.
Sending strength
LHAP?

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 2:11 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

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maddmurph
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought you were filing and this was a done deal. Why do you continue to engage with this remorseless woman, who now has the MC on her side?

No I was just exploring the possibilities.

I think I'm going to give it one more session because the MC knows I'm not impressed. It also gives her one more week to what needs to be done.


Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
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