How can I learn to respect where he is in the process and not sell myself short in the meantime? I've woken up to what I want out of a relationship and he's not giving it to me.
I hit this point about 5-6 months out from first Dday. I held on, trying to patient. I filed in September - this was one reason. Well, truthfully where he was in the process was denial and that wasn't working for me anymore.
Does he know how you feel?