WW seems to be in limbo about what she wants. She talked to a friend of mine (she is friends with his wife) and told him she just wants to be happy. She also said she doesn't have a plan right now in order to get that. She talked to his wife the next night for the first time since this all happened. She did not talk about the situation at all. Their conversation seemed far more normal than it should be for what's going on. She even said she wasn't going to talk about our issues with this woman, prior to her calling. Almost like it was a chore just to call.
She has made no plans on moving out, other than saying she wants to and has not even told her attorney that she now has a job. This was the condition of her extending the separation hearing a few weeks back. Said she wanted to let me stay in the house and be on her own. She is rather comfortable.
She has applied for a few other jobs as she knows this one will not get her by on her own. She hasn't gotten her first paycheck yet, but most of that will go to her phone bill, her lawyer, and her credit card. She agreed to pay me back for her early contract termination fee on our phone plan ($95). Other than that, she isn't cleaning shit around the house or contributing to the meals.
She has stated that she no longer considers, or feels comfortable, calling our house her home. She also said she still feels resentment for moving her here. I was under the impression that I was forgiven for this, but it would seem I am not. She still sleeps on the couch by choice and I sleep in our bed. No intimate contact and no more pictures thus far.
I'm not sure what the hell is going on anymore Me/BS 35
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.