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User Topic: Sick of the sh!t, Im not rugsweeping!!!
suposd2btheonly1
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Angry  Posted: 9:44 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the past week WH has been a total jackass when I ask about the A. He ignores me and doesn't want to talk about it....excuse me "relive it". Hes convinced that it will only hurt me worse, well he says that, I'm convinced he just wants me to be "There, there sweetheart, come here everything is gonna be okay." He ran off and continued an affair for a month while I was at home taking care of business, of course I'm not going to be happy and of course I want answers.

I'm so entirely sick of how hes been the last week! Hes done nothing around the house, he tries to hang out with his friends all the time while I'm at work and then he has the balls to text me and ask me to set him out work clothes. FUCK! OFF!

Our 4yo DS is sick as of 4am with a terrible cough and WH text a few minutes ago "Do you care if I take Bryan to the casino for an hour?" The fuck?! And who is supposed to watch the kids? So I tell him not no but HELL NO!

He then proceeds to throw a tantrum that even a 2yo would be ashamed of. Telling me that he will only spend $20 (which is ALWAYS a lie), hell come to my casino where I can see him at all times. I'm at work and its not my job to babysit him on camera, hes not even allowed to play here! He goes on and on like a little titty baby, I'm sick of it.

So then he says well I'm leaving tonight then. I told him fine, I give zero shits at this point. He wont talk to me about anything so hes a coward and until he can man up and face the turmoil he caused then by all means go the fuck away!

I was such an idiot to think that he was even sorry, apparently hes not. Hes not showing it, he was doing okay for a bit then he just stopped. I am not by any means okay with him laying down in the bed of a sleazy roach motel in drug and prostitute alley to WILLINGLY stick his dick inside some little whore! I'm just not!

So yes WH! You gigantic D-bag! I AM mad and your rugsweeping isn't getting you anything except a more pissed off wife!

All this anger is stemming from me remembering that in JUNE this year he started telling me about OWs fiances company and asking me to put in an application for him. I remember that it was in June but that WH told me that he only talked to her for a weekend at work before they exchanged numbers then days later slept together. They saw he each other the first time July 17 so I know hes lying. When I confronted him he didn't reply just silence then all of a sudden can he got to the casino???


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((suposd2b)))


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14727 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
myperfectlife
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an asshole.
Sorry.
That's really all I have to say right now.


I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! I'm feeling the same way! I'm just sick of him, sick of everything! I absolutely HATE him for what hes done to me, our family, marriage, friendship EVERYTHING!

Hes just such an......ASSHOLE!!!


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
headdesk
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor baby. I'd lay out his work clothes. On the lawn.

And set them on fire.

Hugs.


Me: 39
WH: 42
DDay:Sep 19 2013 (only TT of EA)
Oct 4th 2013 revealed PA through snooping.
Marred 16 years, together for 20. Looking to R at this time. We have awesome kids (12/14).

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