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User Topic: Keeping Strong
Sparkle0504
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't need advice, just a little vent after a rough few days.

So I went to sleep last night holding my wedding ring thinking "if I'm still holding it in the morning, I'll try another day..." I was clutching it fiercely this morning, so I guess the SAWH lives to fight another day.

The clock's ticking though. Although apparently I'm not qualified to say he's a SA because I don't have a degree in psychiatry. Silly me


Me 44 (BS) Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011

The truth hurts, but nowhere near as much as the lies
"Sounds harsh, but she's my wife and I'm supposed to be there when she's having sex" Sal1995


Posts: 236 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
Missymomma
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sparkle, have you looked into whether there is an S-Anon meeting near you? I know they have some in the UK. Also, come and take a look at our thread for spouses of SAs under the I Can Relate forum
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=511677&AP=1

Staying married to an SA not in recovery is a scary proposition.


DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

Posts: 1084 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Texas
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is also a COSA online group on Yahoo. They have virtual meetings and also a message board for support.

I used it over the summer when I couldn't get to S-Anon meetings due to childcare.


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 781 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
Sparkle0504
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. I'll look for a virtual meeting as there are none near me. I have a very strange friend in rl - WH's ex girlfriend (who has had a 7.5 year relationship with him, with same issues) and she's been amazingly supportive. He tried so hard to keep us apart lol - because he knew we'd compare notes I imagine. Yep!

Yes, a very scary proposition - I personally can't see it ending well, but I need to be 100% sure when I go, otherwise I know I risk being sucked back in:(


Me 44 (BS) Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011

The truth hurts, but nowhere near as much as the lies
"Sounds harsh, but she's my wife and I'm supposed to be there when she's having sex" Sal1995


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