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User Topic: 5 months later
allingoodtime
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been five months today. Six months since I got that phone call...and it all went to hell. We're working it out...or trying. I keep telling myself it's a marathon. One I just have to keep running. But I want it to be a sprint so badly, guys. I just...I want to go back to what we were before. I miss the best friend I had in her, I miss the trust I had in him...I miss the closeness we had, and I just can't stand the pity in our families' eyes when they look at us. I'm just so d**n angry.


(All In Good Time)
BS: 25 (me)
WH: 29

A Dates: March 2013-May 2013
D-Day 2013: May 24
MW: My former best friend.


Posts: 12 | Registered: Jun 2013
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wouldn't a sprint be nice!! I would settle for a slow walking 5k, but I am in a marathon that I sure never trained for!!!
It's ok to be angry. I am sitting here being angry with you. I heard that a mom on a tv show say that to her kid and I liked it. I cant take away your anger but I can sit here with you! Damn anger!
I hope you will find peace and relief soon, take care


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 478 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
2boys11
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you! I crave to go back to simplier times when our biggest problem wasn't known by our families, when I trusted him and trusted our future together. I'd love just turn back to clock before ALL this happened!!

But you know what? We are human, we are working on it, we are examining our issues--who knows? Maybe in the end it will all be worth it to have a stronger marriage? That would be nice!!


BS - Me, 36
FWH- Him, 38
Married 10 years, 3 beautiful kids 6 and under
DDay - Sept 13, 2013
TT for 7 months

Posts: 17 | Registered: Sep 2013
allingoodtime
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you both for your replies. PinkJeepLady, I really really like that "I'm sitting here being angry with you." That's so much better than the "we understand" or the "it will be okay"s that I hear from the people I see daily when I'm upset. Thank you.

2boys11, I think it really is all we can do, hoping for a stronger marriage. God knows, we can't get much lower can we?


(All In Good Time)
BS: 25 (me)
WH: 29

A Dates: March 2013-May 2013
D-Day 2013: May 24
MW: My former best friend.


Posts: 12 | Registered: Jun 2013
Topic Posts: 4

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