'Bump' puts the thread at the top of the list so your thread is more likely to get a response. The Staff seems quicker on the trigger today than usual, but I could be wrong.
What's worked in C for me is having some simple goals. The goals are really a matter of 'What do I want to change about myself?'
I recommend writing a list of things you to change about your life and use that as a start for interviewing some candidate Cs. A good candidate ...
has some understanding of your list
says s/he can help you achieve your goals
has some experience in dealing with infidelity and/or trauma
sounds like s/he'd be good to work with
You can't predict your fit with a C - it's more art than science in most ways, but a short phone interview (10-15 minutes) should be enough to give you a 'go/nogo' vibe.