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User Topic: 4 out of 17
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I work for a large corporation but my department is small, only 17 people.

I found out today that yet another person in my office is a BS.

3 of us are women and we now have a male counterpart.

I was shocked.

His wife left, left the house, left the kids, left.

And.......... they are in love and getting married and he is invited to their wedding!!!!

I haven't talked to him or pointed him in this direction yet, I will soon.

Oddly enough, I am the only one who is still married. The other 3 had their WS leave for the AP.

I can't math can someone do the odds for me?

4 out of 17, is that like 1/4?


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5447 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
Thessalian
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup, that's slightly less than 1/4, close enough to just call it 1/4, though.

Ugh. Terrible.


Me: BW, 30
Him: WH, 36

7 years of double-digit ONS, LTA, hookers - the works.

First found out: August 20, 2013
Whole truth: January 1, 2014


Posts: 164 | Registered: Sep 2013
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

25% I bet there is someone else you don't know about.

Not everyone talks but I bet the % is higher than 25!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that I think about it, we might have another.

She divorced her H because he slept around and wouldn't stop, sounds like another BS to me!

I had to stop and think about everyone's marital status


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5447 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was at our company meeting the beginning of the year. There were 12 people there. 5 of them were actively engaging in affairs. Almost half of my company were WS's just that week alone!!!

Thank god i only have to see those people twice a year.


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2636 | Registered: Aug 2012
Kierst13
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that I think about it, we might have another.

She divorced her H because he slept around and wouldn't stop, sounds like another BS to me!

If there are 5 out of 17, that is 30%, with 4 out of the 5 ending in divorce, that is an 80% divorce rate. It is scary and sad to think about, but I do not think those numbers are too far off base.


Story in my profile
He lied, I gave the gift of R
He became the model remorseful WS...all while lying and seeing her
Am I done? Yes I am!

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