just like to hear some different input, other than hers/wife!!
Should your wife be calling you? Yes. What are you concerned is happening?
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
My wife will not travel, wears sweatpants, sweat shirts in winter and shorts, tennis shoes, and 25 year old tee shirts with brand new shirts in the bag on the closet shelves.
She will work out in the summer heat of 90-94 degrees, sweat like a mule, smell like a hog, climb up in the bed at night, go to sleep without taking a bath. It's repulsive to me and I have asked her to at least rinse off and she tells me to STFU!!
stepdaughter goes insane....she is gone to her daughter's to visit for the eleventh time this year, and she never calls to see if I'm OK.
Why is she so inconsiderate of me and shows no compassion for me ever!
We mix like oil and water. We have never consummated our marriage
she has never cooked one meal. I do all the cooking, if we don't eat out, just about every day.
The question is, what, if anything, will you do about being in a marriage for 5 years that has never been consummated, and you're with a woman who doesn't seem to care for you??
I read your profile and the way your W and stepdaughter treat you so callously, why do you put up with that kind of treatment?
Do you think your wife is involved in infidelity? I'm sorry, but it's not clear to me by your post.
I've got to say, my thoughts are similar to Hope2b's - what are you willing to do about being in a marriage with a woman who doesn't seem to care for you and who repulses you?
I'm really sorry you're in this situation, but you're the only one who can make your life better.
She obviously must have been raised in a barn. What about her is positive?
Quit giving her and the daughter money. Shut off the supply.
This doesn't sound like a relationship at all, let alone a marriage. There appear to be at least 3 people in this marriage and none of them are you.
Horrible question alert:
Did she marry you for money?
Cos I am not seeing the love.
You sound in great emotional pain, but I think you can make it stop, when you're ready x
How does she act to you otherwise when she's home? You do everything? It would upset me also if ws never called me when out of town. Actually everything you mentioned sounded like she's not there for you at all.
You absolutely deserve much better than this.
Good luck Quarterback.
[This message edited by Thinkingtoomuch at 9:13 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)]
Please see the truth that is staring you in the face, and see a lawyer NOW. Protect your assets.
I am so so sorry.